My goal is not to dismiss people's story or their feeling, nor to lack empathy.
My English is not perfect as it's not my first language, but I wanted to share some bits and pieces of my own experience about training, goals, steroids and relationships.
Some people are insecure, some are assholes, some are both. Some procrastinate. Some like a challenge while others run away from it. From experience, alcohol, drugs, stress or gear will only make those traits stronger and more visible. The only thing you have control over is yourself, your goals, your training, your mental health. You can decide to drag it along, to engage in toxic behavior and bickering. You can decide to skip a workout here and there to 'buy some peace'. But will it really change the issue ? Will it make things better ? Will you feel less guilty ?
When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Don't blame the gear. Don't blame their job. You don't even have to blame yourself. Just do yourself a favor - just leave, work on yourself, and be your best fucking self.
This is for the girls blaming XYZ for their ex's behavior, but also for the guys bitching against their ex for ABC. Just get a grip, move on, and keep building yourself back up.
My English is not perfect as it's not my first language, but I wanted to share some bits and pieces of my own experience about training, goals, steroids and relationships.
Some people are insecure, some are assholes, some are both. Some procrastinate. Some like a challenge while others run away from it. From experience, alcohol, drugs, stress or gear will only make those traits stronger and more visible. The only thing you have control over is yourself, your goals, your training, your mental health. You can decide to drag it along, to engage in toxic behavior and bickering. You can decide to skip a workout here and there to 'buy some peace'. But will it really change the issue ? Will it make things better ? Will you feel less guilty ?
When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Don't blame the gear. Don't blame their job. You don't even have to blame yourself. Just do yourself a favor - just leave, work on yourself, and be your best fucking self.
This is for the girls blaming XYZ for their ex's behavior, but also for the guys bitching against their ex for ABC. Just get a grip, move on, and keep building yourself back up.