You should've talked to your now ex wife and explained how the steroids we going to change your mindset and increase your libido while on cycle. Not to mention after the cycle and pct.
I had to explain to my wife everything. Especially after cycle since libido goes down and the tables changes. All the sudden I was refusing her after she got used to crazy sex all the time for at least 16 weeks, lol.
Next time be smart about it. Dont blame the roids. Think smart and act smart. Good luck next time.
I worked as a counselor for marriages before, it is unlikely they will be able to reconcile their relationship based on her walking in on him having oral sex with a neighbor. she will never let him live that experience down and it is best for both of them to move on.