Just wanted to see if i am being unreasonable when it comes to my marriage
My wife and I are both in our mid 20’s and got married last year after dating for 4 months, we met at a picnic after church. Recently we had a dinner party with another couple from church and the subject of sex before marriage came up. They were saying how awful it was for people to be having sex before marriage and my wife surprisingly said that it was okay to do it as long as it was safe sex. I was very surprised because i was under the impression that we both married with our V cards, she even bled after our first time which was extremely rough sex so i thought she was a virgin 100%.
After the dinner i talked to her and asked her if i was really her first and she said that she lied to me about that one thing and then turned it around on me and said that I had lied too about steroid use. I had used steroids while in college cause everyone in my frat was using them and didn’t tell her until after we married cause i now have to do TRT.
Anyway she spent the night at her parents and then the next day came back home and i point blank asked her how many guys and she said 22 but they were all mostly 1 time each and meant nothing.
I told her i was filing for divorce and she ran out the house crying telling me that i was a dumb meathead and she hoped i died from steroids. I yelled at her going out the door that she was a lying slut and never to come back again. I just think it is hypocritical, anyone go through this?
My wife and I are both in our mid 20’s and got married last year after dating for 4 months, we met at a picnic after church. Recently we had a dinner party with another couple from church and the subject of sex before marriage came up. They were saying how awful it was for people to be having sex before marriage and my wife surprisingly said that it was okay to do it as long as it was safe sex. I was very surprised because i was under the impression that we both married with our V cards, she even bled after our first time which was extremely rough sex so i thought she was a virgin 100%.
After the dinner i talked to her and asked her if i was really her first and she said that she lied to me about that one thing and then turned it around on me and said that I had lied too about steroid use. I had used steroids while in college cause everyone in my frat was using them and didn’t tell her until after we married cause i now have to do TRT.
Anyway she spent the night at her parents and then the next day came back home and i point blank asked her how many guys and she said 22 but they were all mostly 1 time each and meant nothing.
I told her i was filing for divorce and she ran out the house crying telling me that i was a dumb meathead and she hoped i died from steroids. I yelled at her going out the door that she was a lying slut and never to come back again. I just think it is hypocritical, anyone go through this?