I've never used Dbol, but with the half life being so short, makes it a tough compound to keep blood levels on track. I would say if you're going to dose Dbol at 20mg/day, take 10mg AM, 10mg preworkout, rather than 20mg preworkout.
Of course having kids makes it tougher depending on their ages...I'm assuming you're going to meetings, if so, take her to the meetings with you. If you're not going to meetings and you quit on your own, does she have any friends that could take her to a meeting?
Bigtime props to you for...
When you do anabolics your pituitary gland will shut off your Luteinizing hormone & Follicle stimulating hormone (LH & FSH) production. This will stop the production of testosterone in the testicles. HCG replicates FSH which helps also helps fertility.