girlfriend sleeps in same bed as her male friend (my steroid dealer)

[Yeriqoa]

so here is the weird thing. I live in a small town where everyone knows each other. That type of place you see in old tv shows. I get my gear from a gym buddy who is gay. In my town the elders don’t know his sexual preference, but the people at the gym all know him to be gay which nobody cares about. Here is the thing though, he is also friends with my girlfriend. They have known each other well for 15 years and went to high school together and grew up together and all that. I went to a high school on the other side of town for bad kids so I met her afterwards and have known her for only 6 months
long story short he is my steroid dealer from the gym and provides to most of us some of the best gear ever. My issue though is my girlfriend and him are really close friends. Like super close. She didn’t call me the other day and I didn’t hear from her so I freaked out and didn’t sleep all night. I ended up going to her place the next morning and saw a huge truck in her yard along with her car. Thought that was strange so I knocked on the door and she opens it up and says “shhhhh” with her finger to her mouth then “come in”. We walk into her house and I look into her bedroom and that Mfer is sleeping IN HER BED snoring! I’m like WTF in disbelief. She tells me they were out late last night drinking and he didn’t want him driving home so he crashed. Another weird thing is they go to the bathroom together to pee and put on makeup and all that.
I wanted to dump her right away and then kick his ass but I held back. Thought I would consult with my bros on here as to what I should do from here. Something don’t smell right to me. She keeps
saying I am being controlling and is saying she will tell him to stop dealing me steroids if I keep acting paranoid about everything. What would you do in my shoes?

 

[stevesmi]

she disrespected you by ignoring you all night and then who knows what happened that night

you maybe don't want to know

it doesn't matter if the guy was gay or not. would it be any different if you walked in and found an old guy or a female or etc? that is weird she is letting other people sleep in her bed. the bed is the place where you should sleep or sex. you don't use it to let others sleep in. that is disgusting

 

[Mobster]

Does she have a spare bedroom?

 

[Kalicut]

I know a guy that’s “gay” and pulls more women then any of us could dream of.

 

[LevButlerov]

so here is the weird thing. I live in a small town where everyone knows each other. That type of place you see in old tv shows. I get my gear from a gym buddy who is gay. In my town the elders don’t know his sexual preference, but the people at the gym all know him to be gay which nobody cares about. Here is the thing though, he is also friends with my girlfriend. They have known each other well for 15 years and went to high school together and grew up together and all that. I went to a high school on the other side of town for bad kids so I met her afterwards and have known her for only 6 months
long story short he is my steroid dealer from the gym and provides to most of us some of the best gear ever. My issue though is my girlfriend and him are really close friends. Like super close. She didn’t call me the other day and I didn’t hear from her so I freaked out and didn’t sleep all night. I ended up going to her place the next morning and saw a huge truck in her yard along with her car. Thought that was strange so I knocked on the door and she opens it up and says “shhhhh” with her finger to her mouth then “come in”. We walk into her house and I look into her bedroom and that Mfer is sleeping IN HER BED snoring! I’m like WTF in disbelief. She tells me they were out late last night drinking and he didn’t want him driving home so he crashed. Another weird thing is they go to the bathroom together to pee and put on makeup and all that.
I wanted to dump her right away and then kick his ass but I held back. Thought I would consult with my bros on here as to what I should do from here. Something don’t smell right to me. She keeps
saying I am being controlling and is saying she will tell him to stop dealing me steroids if I keep acting paranoid about everything. What would you do in my shoes?

dump her and get a new g/f

 

[JasonPriest]

i wouldn't trust this guy for steroids. he seems like a loser and a bum to me. who spends the night with a chick after getting drunk like that? very bizarre behavior

 

[BodyMonster34]

so here is the weird thing. I live in a small town where everyone knows each other. That type of place you see in old tv shows. I get my gear from a gym buddy who is gay. In my town the elders don’t know his sexual preference, but the people at the gym all know him to be gay which nobody cares about. Here is the thing though, he is also friends with my girlfriend. They have known each other well for 15 years and went to high school together and grew up together and all that. I went to a high school on the other side of town for bad kids so I met her afterwards and have known her for only 6 months
long story short he is my steroid dealer from the gym and provides to most of us some of the best gear ever. My issue though is my girlfriend and him are really close friends. Like super close. She didn’t call me the other day and I didn’t hear from her so I freaked out and didn’t sleep all night. I ended up going to her place the next morning and saw a huge truck in her yard along with her car. Thought that was strange so I knocked on the door and she opens it up and says “shhhhh” with her finger to her mouth then “come in”. We walk into her house and I look into her bedroom and that Mfer is sleeping IN HER BED snoring! I’m like WTF in disbelief. She tells me they were out late last night drinking and he didn’t want him driving home so he crashed. Another weird thing is they go to the bathroom together to pee and put on makeup and all that.
I wanted to dump her right away and then kick his ass but I held back. Thought I would consult with my bros on here as to what I should do from here. Something don’t smell right to me. She keeps
saying I am being controlling and is saying she will tell him to stop dealing me steroids if I keep acting paranoid about everything. What would you do in my shoes?

bro i would have grabbed dude by neck and threw him out window

stop being a poosy, cannot stand this shit to read

 

[e2]

get new g/f lol

 

[ceo]

bros wtf is that no good

 

[2Thick]

dump her ass right now

 

[MONSTRO]

maybe the cuddling lol

 

[25homes]

she disrespected you by ignoring you all night and then who knows what happened that night

you maybe don't want to know

it doesn't matter if the guy was gay or not. would it be any different if you walked in and found an old guy or a female or etc? that is weird she is letting other people sleep in her bed. the bed is the place where you should sleep or sex. you don't use it to let others sleep in. that is disgusting

so here is the weird thing. I live in a small town where everyone knows each other. That type of place you see in old tv shows. I get my gear from a gym buddy who is gay. In my town the elders don’t know his sexual preference, but the people at the gym all know him to be gay which nobody cares about. Here is the thing though, he is also friends with my girlfriend. They have known each other well for 15 years and went to high school together and grew up together and all that. I went to a high school on the other side of town for bad kids so I met her afterwards and have known her for only 6 months
long story short he is my steroid dealer from the gym and provides to most of us some of the best gear ever. My issue though is my girlfriend and him are really close friends. Like super close. She didn’t call me the other day and I didn’t hear from her so I freaked out and didn’t sleep all night. I ended up going to her place the next morning and saw a huge truck in her yard along with her car. Thought that was strange so I knocked on the door and she opens it up and says “shhhhh” with her finger to her mouth then “come in”. We walk into her house and I look into her bedroom and that Mfer is sleeping IN HER BED snoring! I’m like WTF in disbelief. She tells me they were out late last night drinking and he didn’t want him driving home so he crashed. Another weird thing is they go to the bathroom together to pee and put on makeup and all that.
I wanted to dump her right away and then kick his ass but I held back. Thought I would consult with my bros on here as to what I should do from here. Something don’t smell right to me. She keeps
saying I am being controlling and is saying she will tell him to stop dealing me steroids if I keep acting paranoid about everything. What would you do in my shoes?

bro you cant be serious. dude on gear in bed wit your girl. I kno I be smokin dat ass!! you gotta get rid of her and go to @domestic-supply.com for the best gear money can buy

 

[ballin2504]

I wouldn’t deal with it

 

[Topps_Baseball88]

Time to exit and keep on trucking dime a dozen as they say

 

[Groucho]

You spelled "ex-girlfriend" wrong

 

[Undisrupted]

Lol idk I'm gonna go against the grain here -- if he genuinely is gay and they've known eachother for 15 years then they're comfortable enough to sleep with eachother - I wouldn't say that's too out of the ordinary. You have to make sure he genuinely is gay though and not pretending. If you dont like that he slept in the bed with your girlfriend, set the boundary with your girlfriend and communicate how you feel about it, not rocket science.