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Boys, how did you break it to your Mrs that you were on the jabs and how did it affect your relationship? I'm shitting bricks what she will think if/when she finds out ... is honesty the best policy when it comes to this? Mine always asks if I am and I just tell her that my diet is on point. Id hate for her to blame the gear if we have an argument - "You're angry cause of the steroids" etc etc etc
Hiding steroid use from your significant other is a terrible idea. The truth always comes out. When she does eventually find out, she will be be more mad at the fact you hid it from her then the actual fact you are using steroids.
Be completely upfront and honest about the subject with her. Go into the conversation educated and explain how safe steroids are when you take the proper support supplements. Explain how you regularly get blood work done, use support supplements on cycle and run proper PCTs after each cycle. Tell her your healthy will always be your first priority. She won't be thrilled but I am sure she will respect your decision and support you.
Here are two articles you can get her to read to help understand the safety of steroids and some of the myths associated with steroids:
Bloodwork for steroid users to stay healthy - http://www.evolutionary.org/blood-work-for-steroid-users
The myths behind roid rage - http://www.evolutionary.org/is-roid-rage-real-facts
Be completely upfront and honest about the subject with her. Go into the conversation educated and explain how safe steroids are when you take the proper support supplements. Explain how you regularly get blood work done, use support supplements on cycle and run proper PCTs after each cycle. Tell her your healthy will always be your first priority. She won't be thrilled but I am sure she will respect your decision and support you.
Here are two articles you can get her to read to help understand the safety of steroids and some of the myths associated with steroids:
Bloodwork for steroid users to stay healthy - http://www.evolutionary.org/blood-work-for-steroid-users
The myths behind roid rage - http://www.evolutionary.org/is-roid-rage-real-facts
I've been with quite a few Ladies over the years.
And I have always been Up-Front with them.
I think the Biggest Hurdle is Understanding exactly what Steroids ~ Do and Don't Do.
A lot of People have Misconceptions about AAS and P.E.D.S. in general.
So if you sit your Lady down and explain things, I've found it makes it easier for them to accept.................................. JP
P.S.
I can Tell You this for Certain.
A Woman may Forgive ~ But She'll Never Forget.
So Honesty is the Best Policy.
I did a pro-hormone cycle and didn't tell my wife until I had to explain her why I couldn't perform. I was naive, no information, no blood work, no PCT. This time I spent a lot of time leaning about AAS, got blood work and post it here. I sat down with my wife and told her to read these forums with me. She is not 100 happy but knows this time I am being super responsable, I am not cutting any corners and not hiding anything. She actually learned how to inject me. Good luck
I know she will understand the science and stuff behind it, but I know she will judge me cause she will think i'm some kind of junkie jabbing myself all the time. This is a tough one! If she says its either our relationship or the gym, anyone wanna come deadlift with me the next day?
Jay Scott
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If she already didnt realise that you are juicing, it can be because of few things:
Either you are doing it wrong and you look like you dont do gym
OR She is super naive and believes anything you say
In any case, you will lose when it comes out, because you were hiding it all along
we had a podcast episode about this
she should have already called your ass out for using steroids, i get called out on the first date every time. do you look like you use steroids?
second you should live the lifestyle where she wouldn't be able to say a thing to you. if you are drinking, smoking, doing rec drugs then how do you expect her to respect what you are doing? if you live a clean lifestyle she won't be able to say a thing to you
she should have already called your ass out for using steroids, i get called out on the first date every time. do you look like you use steroids?
second you should live the lifestyle where she wouldn't be able to say a thing to you. if you are drinking, smoking, doing rec drugs then how do you expect her to respect what you are doing? if you live a clean lifestyle she won't be able to say a thing to you
raptor1331
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You should have let her know in the first place bro cmon.. shes your WIFE!! Your health is her business, especially if you have kids, and she stays at home, she is INVESTED in you... i dont get it guys, dont hide shit from your spouses, they always find out!!
you should have at least told her, then still ran steroids.. at least then you wouldn't be hiding it from her. right now your best bet is to educate the shit out of her, show her youre healthy with blood work to prove it, and cross your fingers. hopefully your not on tren atm, looks like you might not be getting any for a while
you should have at least told her, then still ran steroids.. at least then you wouldn't be hiding it from her. right now your best bet is to educate the shit out of her, show her youre healthy with blood work to prove it, and cross your fingers. hopefully your not on tren atm, looks like you might not be getting any for a while
Try to think of it from her perspective. How would it make you feel if she hid something from you? Definitely be upfront and honest.
Shovelhead
Member
Agree that honesty is best policy. BUT, that said, you know your wife better than anyone. You have a pretty good idea what she's gonna think and how she's gonna react. My guess is that's why your hesitant to tell her. My ole lady flipped out, but we were married for 22 years and the relationship was always a bit on the strained side anyways. I wish I would have never told her. Cause after that, anytime we argued she said it was because of the steroid use. She was way off base. It caused arguments. Said she thought I was cheating life by using them, blah, blah, blah. Anyways, that's my 2 cents. You know your situation better than anyone. If your cycling it's easier to hide. If your on trt for life, not as easy. Be wise and make the best decision. Who the hell knows what the best decision is. Tell her she flips out, don't tell her and prolong her finding out (which she will eventually) then she flips out. You may just be prolonging the inevitable. Good luck.
^^^women in their 20's are as dumb as guys that age.
she just wanted to find a reason to nag you.
I hope you got out of that marriage with minimal loss. I tell guys to wait until atleast they are 35 and preferably 40 to even think about marriage. as men we are expected to not tell a women what she should do with her body, so what gives her the right to tell you ?
it is important to disclose you are in the fitness lifestyle early on BEFORE marriage. this way she is willing to put up with your fitness obsessions and you know what to expect to. thats why i dumped a nice girl i was with, she would come home with mcdonalds and I did not allow that garbage in my house . a cool chick not only will be cool with you using steroids, but she will want to get some PED's as well from you to help herself. my girl loves SARM's i hook her up with, and she will inject me if needed too. she supports what i do cause I lead a healthy lifestyle and look good to make her happy.
she just wanted to find a reason to nag you.
I hope you got out of that marriage with minimal loss. I tell guys to wait until atleast they are 35 and preferably 40 to even think about marriage. as men we are expected to not tell a women what she should do with her body, so what gives her the right to tell you ?
it is important to disclose you are in the fitness lifestyle early on BEFORE marriage. this way she is willing to put up with your fitness obsessions and you know what to expect to. thats why i dumped a nice girl i was with, she would come home with mcdonalds and I did not allow that garbage in my house . a cool chick not only will be cool with you using steroids, but she will want to get some PED's as well from you to help herself. my girl loves SARM's i hook her up with, and she will inject me if needed too. she supports what i do cause I lead a healthy lifestyle and look good to make her happy.
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I've had the same experience. And none of my partners have ever had an issue, one of which always asked that everything was going ok and was quite supportive
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In the end of the day, the truth will always come afloat, so it is best to make sure that it will come from you - this way your Mrs. will be much less reticent to the news. The key here is explaining in detail how it all works, the side effects, and the benefits. There are a lot of misconceptions about steroid use among the general public, so you must explain her that these are wrong.
