Q and A with muskate's girlfriend on women and relationships

[muskate]

I wish a thread like this existed before I met Alyssa.

We all have questions about women, how to approach women, where to take a girl on a first date etc. Alyssa has agreed to come on here daily and answer all your questions about women and relationships. This thread will be completely unfiltered so you can ask her absolutely anything.

Alyssa is doing this all for free and out of her own time so please keep the thread positive.

Alyssa trains every single day and takes her training very seriously so she knows first hand how to approach women at the gym to talk to them, and how not to.

 

[jp4355]

Unfortunately, I have no questions, think I've asked my Various Girlfriends/Ole-Ladies over the years every question imaginable.

Just wanted to say, that you make a Cute Couple, and I Wish you, All the Best............................................... JP
P.S.
And I'm sure she will be Inundated with questions.

 

[stevesmi]

here is a question I got sent a lot before our dating guru podcast that I did not get a chance to ask David during the podcast because we simply ran out of time.

a lot of guys wanted to know "What is the best thing first message for a girl if you are on a dating site that will get the most responses"

 

[yesidont]

Unfortunately, I have no questions, think I've asked my Various Girlfriends/Ole-Ladies over the years every question imaginable.

Just wanted to say, that you make a Cute Couple, and I Wish you, All the Best............................................... JP
P.S.
And I'm sure she will be Inundated with questions.

i also dont have any questions and agreed with jp4355 that you make a cute couple

 

[MrsMuskate]

here is a question I got sent a lot before our dating guru podcast that I did not get a chance to ask David during the podcast because we simply ran out of time.

a lot of guys wanted to know "What is the best thing first message for a girl if you are on a dating site that will get the most responses"

To be honest, just a simple: "hey, how are you? " or "hope your day is going well, look forward to hearing from you"

Give that a shot that way your not stepping over any boundaries and doesn't seem like your simply just hitting on a girl, communication is key to every relationship !

 

[Mr. Chicago]

If you're extremely open and comfortable with your significant other, trusting, loving, etc. What would be your reaction to his request of inviting another woman into the bedroom? What kind of ground rules would you have? One time thing only, no penetration with her, etc? Thanks luv!

 

[fraz_732000]

I ve no question at the moment but wishing you both all the best!

 

[Mr. Chicago]

Also, welcome to the boards Alyssa
It's nice to have a beautiful woman's point of view to hopefully help our juiced up asses haha. I've been dating my current gf for about a year now and I just wanted to know the ideal way to diffuse an argument. I don't think I've ever even come close to having her concede so most times I have to. It's getting to the point where in her head she's just always right and it drives me nuts! I love her to death but I'm very seriously pondering ending the relationship BC it's starting to feel much too toxic. Thanks for reading and please tell me what you think hun?!

 

[goldprospecto]

this thread seems like it will either be fun or dangerous...From a man who has been married a total of 27 years...It may just be impossible to figure out the answers! LOL

 

[Mr. Chicago]

this thread seems like it will either be fun or dangerous...From a man who has been married a total of 27 years...It may just be impossible to figure out the answers! LOL

Preach brother haha I don't even pretend to know the answers anymore. For example she's laying right next to me and I want to caress and kiss her, but also shake the shit out of her at the same time. Maybe I can rattle some common sense and decency in her but I doubt it. I think I'm going to tell her it's over later today.

 

[stevesmi]

To be honest, just a simple: "hey, how are you? " or "hope your day is going well, look forward to hearing from you"

Give that a shot that way your not stepping over any boundaries and doesn't seem like your simply just hitting on a girl, communication is key to every relationship !

you don't think that seems generic like copy/pasted?

 

[Masonic Bodybuilder]

Great thread idea and welcome to the forum!

I have been married 11 years now and hope to stay that way. Hopefully guys who are out there looking will get a lot of help here.

 

[muskate]

Alyssa is like me and has a million things on the go at all times. She drove me to the airport this morning and then had to rush to the gym to get her workout in before leaving to work. She will be on tonight to answer all your guys questions.


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[aggirl]

Hi Alyssa....your super cute and you have a great guy there.

 

[sisir012]

Mr muskate and mrs muskate looking good

Eat Healthy Think Better

 

[gearhead]

sister welcome to the evo family...muskate is a good brother....

 

[MrsMuskate]

If you're extremely open and comfortable with your significant other, trusting, loving, etc. What would be your reaction to his request of inviting another woman into the bedroom? What kind of ground rules would you have? One time thing only, no penetration with her, etc? Thanks luv!

Hey there, to be completely honest, majority of girls want to feel special and like they are the only ones. I don't feel in a relationship you should need another woman around, even if it's a one time thing. If the one your with is not able to satisfy your needs then you may need to communicate this to your partner.
That is the problem with the media today as they make it seem we desire more than one partner but true love is signified between two people whether a man and a woman, man and man, or woman and woman.

Hope this helps

 

[MrsMuskate]

Also, welcome to the boards Alyssa
It's nice to have a beautiful woman's point of view to hopefully help our juiced up asses haha. I've been dating my current gf for about a year now and I just wanted to know the ideal way to diffuse an argument. I don't think I've ever even come close to having her concede so most times I have to. It's getting to the point where in her head she's just always right and it drives me nuts! I love her to death but I'm very seriously pondering ending the relationship BC it's starting to feel much too toxic. Thanks for reading and please tell me what you think hun?!

Hmm, yeah that is a tough one. hard to say if you have tried many different ways to tame the argument. NEVER tell her to calm down or relax, girls hate that the most. But always be honest forsure, if you are right about something, find a way to show her or prove to back it up. If she still declines then maybe she is one of those girls that needs the attention and drama in her life. I am sorry to say that if it feels toxic, don't stay and cause stress to yourself either. I've learned that the hard way.

Sometimes losing someone shows them how much they meant to you and gives them time to figure out where they went wrong.
Never anything bad with giving a second chance if they can resolve the issue.

 

[stevesmi]

I have a question since females always complain they can't find a good man. i have so many female friends that bitch non stop. what is a good way to find a good guy? should a female approach a man? best places to meet a man?

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another question is what is a good gift to get your bf/gf for xmas if you just started dating? is some $200-300 jewelry too much or should you shoot for a gift card for $50-100

what is a good one to get if you are married or in a long term relationship that is original? maybe a nice watch or vacation?

 

[muskate]

Alyssa, I have a question for you.

Where would you suggest a guy take a girl on a first date (or a second, third, fourth etc date for that matter).

Do you think they should stick with the tried and true dinner date or do something more creative like take them ice skating?