Krazie, people react that way because of how you have already presented yourself. You've spent a lot of time rubbing people the wrong way so they are going to react to anything you say in that way.
It would be awesome if we were given a reset switch in life where we could instantly undue any of our mistakes and make our history go away. But we don't get that, it doesn't exist.
So yes, people are going to react to you with a certain degree is disregard - and this is only made worse when you talk to everyone like you already know everything anyways. You just did it to me... about that "YOU" thought was....
Krazie, stop for a moment. CEO holds a lot of weight here. I'm just a newbie. But the newbie and the vet both said virtually the same thing about your bulking cycle. And I don't know him, he doesn't know me. Is it possible - JUST POSSIBLE - that we are saying that not based on what we "Think is the best" but has proven to be over the years for the vast majority of people?
So while we took 30 seconds to give you a little feedback on what we might do differently, you still told us to shove it up our ass - you already knew everything.
Apply That To The Future
Let's say 6 months from now I'm still around and you are still around. If you posted that you weren't happy with the size you added, what do you think my reaction would be? You've already indicated to me that you knew exactly what worked... Besides being a somewhat nice guy, why would I extend you the kindness to listen to you continue to complain? Nothing I would say that would help will matter - your attitude has made that very clear.
You're Paying Today For What Your Did Yesterday
You see, people may not be nice to you today but that's because of the reputation you've built for yourself in the community in the past...
If you want people to stop thinking of you as a problem then it will
take time and consistent action on your part to change how you interact with everyone.
Roles
This is a little something extra and I'm sure it will only further enrage you but I'm telling you this to help.
People have different psychological roles that they work through. There is the Victim, Creator, Inner-Guide, Inner Defender & Inner Critic. Right now, you are 100% focused on the victim when you need to really be thinking about what your inner-guide would tell you is the best way to improve yourself in the situation you've found yourself in.
There's some Power Points in the first two results. Check them out. These are from a College Student Development class but... who knows... Maybe you'll find them on your hard drive a year from now and think about them on a whim.
https://www.google.com/search?clien...=true...0...1.1.48.serp..5.8.1107.NAzsRfozL5w
The Bottom Line
If you want to be liked, be likable. Stop acting like everyone is an asshole, clueless or 'out to get you.' Even right now, this very moment - I'm not out to get you. I'm still trying to help explain things to you. I'm trying to do what is right in helping your get along better in a community of people you mostly enjoy. That's all.