Amen bro. Really well said.
I'm a big time type A and my wife is the total opposite...in the beginning it was tough but being with her taught me a lot about what you just said. I used to have a hard time understanding how everyone else was sweating the small details and just shrugged them off as stupid or lazy. Now I realize we just see the world differently.
Although...at work I'm still kinda a lot like
@milbous1 lol. I justify it because the type of work we do really doesn't allow for type B's. I'm an electrical contractor and he's a millwright, so very fine detail types of work. The little things matter sooooo much in the big picture. If
@milbous1 has an install off by a 1/16 of an inch it could be catastrophic. If I miss some small detail I could burn a place to the ground. Really not the right careers for type B's.